How to find a partner in college!! I can't recognize all the difficult people!!

Seeing that you are so honest, I'll teach you a few tricks:
1. Have spare money or the ability to make money. People who have no spare money and no ability to make money, and men who study with the money saved at home, should not be dating at this time
2. You can like people but don't ask them to like you. This is the rule of nature. Male animals must have the ability to fight against the same sex to win over the opposite sex. I know I may fail
3. For males in a weak position, if they can't change their economic situation for the time being. At least when you don't have the ability, don't fight for the women that many people fight for. What you should do is read good books and strive to be financially capable as soon as possible. Of course, you can also observe how people soak

dating expenses. As a girl, I don't think it should be completely thrown at men. But I think as a boy, we should take the initiative to carry this burden on ourselves

if you really don't have money, the following is the most economical training process for you to soak in excellent mm in College (although I don't agree with calculating costs, our policy is to build a harmonious society in socialism, but we must always take care of the weaker groups). Don't think it's very simple. Those who don't want money are always more complicated than those who want money. Of course, their sense of achievement is also super good

you must:
1. At the beginning, your grades should be very good. So good that you can point out the MM you like. It's better to insist on scholarships every semester
2. Your English is very good (this is very important). You can read foreign books and newspapers (you can't buy them online, for example, nytimes, ftchina) and regularly read fashion magazines (it's free to read them online). For example, vogue and Elle, you should be familiar with all the world's best brands. Don't mispronounce them. If you mispronounce them, you should ask for advice with an open mind. Don't look at Ruili and so on. It's worse. Looking at this is not to ask you to buy it, but to know that luxury brands are not a sin. They have their beautiful artistic elements. You can not buy them or can't afford them, but you must learn to appreciate them. Mm likes to listen to this, at least
3. He has a role in the student union and other places, often appearing in large-scale activities organized by the school. Exercise your communication ability
4. I am good at some kind of art. You'd better sing. Can draw. At least you can play basketball, and you are more athletic. (these are not talents, and you can practice without spending money.). Besides, your handwriting should be good. These days, fewer people write love letters, which makes you more emotional
5. Actively learn a musical instrument. The cheapest one is Guitar (it costs about 700 to buy a better one, and the maintenance cost is very low). This is also popular with girls. You'd better write songs a little. (the practice time is not long. You can download the score online. Please teach you how to play it.)
6. Don't try to grow long hair, long nails and pierced ears. Remember to shave and wash your hair every day. It may not be luxurious, but it must be clean. Regarding beauty, there is at least one male facial cleanser and one mousse. Personally, I like the short crew cut very much. It's refreshing. It's very handsome when mousse stands up for dating
7. Clothes can be cheap, but not too bad. You can only have 3 suits per season. Don't have more than 10 pieces but no one can wear them out. In view of our economic capability, we cannot follow the trend. Always buy simple styles. For example, in summer, you need at least two or three generous black or other solid color T-shirts (don't have exaggerated colors and logos, even if you buy Nike, don't let me see that letter is bigger than your head. At most, a small one with a little decorative pattern is good. It's not too thin and easy to deform. It's not too small. It's wide enough. The neckline is not too small. It must be pure cotton.) A pair of comfortable low waist blue jeans or a pair of baggy pants. (let me see where your butt is. Don't wear the style that doesn't know where your crotch is.). A pair of sports pants (can also be worn in other seasons). This is a pair of sports shorts. Enough. Summer is almost here. I don't recommend that students have suits. Because you can't wear bad ones at all, you can't afford good ones. I think the suit should be at least more than 4000. Other prices can't be considered at all. It's very cheap to wear, like selling insurance. Don't wear trousers if you don't have anything to do at school. Every season, I need a light blue shirt without any pattern and logo (if I buy it in white, it will look like a waiter). (the collar should be stiff enough. The back of the collar should be close to your neck. The clothes should not be too thin. Don't let me see your two points. Don't wear a vest inside. Pure cotton). A pair of black casual pants (that is, pants with a similar style to Western pants but with a more casual material. Pure cotton) this set can be worn on slightly formal occasions or at ordinary times, such as for work or school social activities. It will be more mature. Put it aside for use first.. oh Then you need a belt. A tie (if others don't wear it, don't wear it. Remember that the tie should be an inch away from the belt). I can't say that much. Anyway, my point of view is, comfortable, don't follow the trend, simple, don't be fancy, natural materials, refuse messy cool, lovely decorations include waist chains, earrings, necklaces, rings, and few people look good in them. Especially cheap decorations
8. Speaking of which... oh Language. Don't speak any language with an accent. If any, try to change it. If the Cantonese is not good, try to say it well. Don't say it is strange
9. Read the newspaper every day. In addition to textbooks, you can also read famous works of various countries. Popular novels on the Internet. Top 10 best selling books. I want to read all kinds of books, except celebrity biographies, marketing and any inspirational books (including what: how to be a successful businessman, how to be a charming man, etc., are all for unsuccessful and unattractive people)
10. If you can, don't eat garlic... Accept any popular food
11. Support playing online games, but remember that it will consume a lot of energy to play or soak up mm on the Internet. And bubble on the Internet.. Hehe, you know. This real success rate is only a little higher than winning the lottery. Of course, there may also be a sense of achievement. By the way, you must be a computer expert. Remember
12. Love this society and this school. Love all good things. Don't have any hostility and anger, otherwise.. Please live alone
13. I can't remember many more. In short. It doesn't cost money to be a noble but interesting person, if you really want to be

I can't guarantee the following quality without the above premise
warning: if you calculate the costs, inputs and benefits in detail, you can imagine what kind of love results you will have

when you start to fall in love, suppose you have a crush on a certain mm, in addition to the methods that everyone knows, you can
1. On any holiday, write her a card to let her know your existence. A single card is a postcard. The cleaner the better. Don't write poetry unless you are really a master. Copy at most one sentence and write it at the back. Don't write anything sensational. It's disgusting. You should know that she may not remember you much. Write something with a slightly favorable tendency. For example, I often meet you recently, which is really a pleasant thing. And then, yes.... Happiness and so on. Don't look ugly, don't alter. If we meet every day, we should be more subtle
2. For her birthday, buy a nice cake (I would recommend buying a cheese cake, but it's expensive, so buy a regular one, about no more than 60 yuan, and you can get a pound. Remember to ask in advance about the packaging. If it's too ugly, change it. Pay attention that her roommates have enough to eat). The gift can be 11 roses. Pay attention. I'll show you how to save money. Go to the market and buy the roses in barrels. There are three packs for ten yuan. There are five or six in a bag. Be sure to carefully select those with very thick and straight roots. The petals are wrapped in white. Open a little parcel to see if the rose petals are damaged. I bought ten roses. Ask the flower seller to remove the thorns. I bought two stars. (10 pieces) ok. Wrap it in newspaper and take it back to the dormitory carefully. incidentally. Go to the florist to buy: one piece of transparent and colorless plastic wrapping paper, two pieces of purple or green wrapping paper (paper is not plastic, remember), and a ribbon. Let the florist pack it for you, or go back to the dormitory to pack it yourself. It's wrapped in transparent plastic. Wrap it with other wrapping paper. Remember. Never wrap book binding and plastic paper binding on flowers, which is very vulgar and cruel. The flowers should be completely relaxed, only tied with a rope. It would be better if you packed it yourself in the dormitory. Tear off the white bags on the flowers, and then put a large bucket of water to soak the roses in the water from head to toe for half an hour (not used by all the stars). Then cut off 2cm branches. Gently wipe the water off the branches and leaves and suck it dry. Choose 11 good ones (all your life) and put the roses and stars in good order. Use a small bag to tie all the roots to prevent water leakage. then... Think for yourself. Just wrap up the flowers. Absolute recovery. The flowers that have drunk enough water are much more beautiful than those outside. Because the flowers of 100 to 300 yuan in most flower shops are not beautiful after they are wrapped and put away for a while. And ordered a lot of dead branches and leaves. And the colorful plastic wrapping paper is scary. Of course, expensive ones are different. This cake doesn't exceed 100 pieces with roses. oh Remember to send me to the dormitory. It's better to show it to everyone. Let's leave it in the reception room. Make it public. The rest of the roses... Let's put it in the sun. After doing it, I packed it in a beautiful bottle and gave it to her. Or make a bookmark
3. Remember. No matter where you travel back to your hometown, I will bring something to her when you leave the school. And this thing had better have the following function: it can invite the sisters in the whole dormitory to eat and eat delicious, such as specialty products and snacks. You can put it in the dormitory to enjoy but not be seen by your classmates and say: ah, I also have one. It's very cheap at 10 yuan at the school gate. Anyway, don't buy clothes, cosmetics, daily necessities and anything practical that can be used for a long time
4. About. Be sure to tell her at least 3 days in advance that you are going to ask her out. And tell her a specific time and what to do. For example, I'd like to invite you to dinner on Wednesday evening. I will send you back to your dormitory before 10:30. (I personally don't like places like McDonald's and KFC.). Personal suggestion: you can wait for her somewhere. You'd better not take the bus together. It's embarrassing. I recommend Dahe sushi on Xihu Road (Beijing Road) if you like to eat it (please wait ahead of mm). You can apply for a membership card on site (with discounts). Then I said to MM that we could integrate slowly. Eat noodles if you can't eat enough. But mm should not eat much. Because some dishes are expensive. I suggest you come here at least in advance to get a take out menu and read the price. After you arrive, you can take the initiative to order some more suitable things calmly. I estimate that under normal circumstances, a full meal should be about 100 to 120. then. You should tell her that I want to see a movie. Can you accompany me. (movie tickets have been bought. Tip: many cinemas, including Qinggong on Beijing Road, are half price on Wednesdays.). After Dahe comes out, remember to buy two drinks nearby (there are 7-11 nearby with stable prices, so I asked her what she wanted to drink). It's expensive in the cinema. Good evening. Send her back to school after reading

I'm tired. Continue to write next time.

My method is more direct and effective: joining student associations and various clubs, of course, it would be better if you could play some musical instruments, sing songs and play basketball_ 0#

First build a good relationship within the class, and then develop outward